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Two Sides to Every Story, at least...

There was a picture on FB that read,  The people that did you wrong are telling a different version of the story and they're playing the victim. put out  by lessonslearnedinlife.com  What people think or how they perceive a situation has nothing to do with you, nor are your thoughts really about them. You have heard the saying there are two sides to every story. That is because each person is seeing what they need for their growth and the two are not anywhere in the same lesson. You both came together for your own lessons. ‘They’ did not do you wrong, you ARE helping each other. How you perceive it tells you about you and has nothing to do with the surfac e situation. The lesson is deeper. We have no way of knowing what lessons other people have. As long as you hold the other person responsible for your pain you will not begin to understand the lesson. If you look inside for the deeper message It can take you to some very unexpected places. It IS worth the j

A Soul Agenda

It seems that the hardest lesson in life is to get that not everyone is here to ‘get it’. They are here for “YOU” to get it. Everyone is here for their own reasons. They come into your life to teach you what you need to know about you and vice versa.  Point: only the ones that you need to be in your life for whatever reason will be in your life. That is why people come and go. The main thing we need to 'get' is we are not here to directly change others. But then again we do influence others as we learn. So learning your lessons help others learn theirs, indirectly, of course. When faced with difficult people we often want to ‘change them’ or think why won’t they change? We need to be thinking about how we are thinking and reacting to them. That is the key. Once we learn the lesson they will either go away or the relationship will transform. Take anger for instance: if you get mad at someone a lot that you think they are treating you wrong or ange